Long-distance Relationship
I am a girl who sinks into love deeply. Naturally, I share things that happened between me and my boyfriend with my friends very often. However, when they learned that he isn't studying in Kaohsiung but in Hsinchu, they were shocked. Then comes several questions like “Aren't you worried your boyfriend will have a love affair?”, “How can you stand not seeing each other for a long time?” When I answered them, they were surprised- again. To me, long-distance relationship is not a problem. The only important thing is to trust and remain committed to each other.
No doubt, it is inevitable to have some quarrels in our relationship. In the past, I complained about that he couldn't accompany me often. I always envied other couples because they could have a dinner or chat with friends together. Not to mention that others also spent times in every holiday. Furthermore, owing to separating in different places, we gently had few friends and topics in common. What’s worse, we stopped fighting but started a silent treatment.
Nevertheless, we go through our low tides. In addition, we realize that we are the only one who can tolerate each other. After all, there is no perfect lover in the world. Thanks to these quarrels, we changed ourselves and adapted to each other. Moreover, the long distance makes us cherish the time we spend together no matter in phone calls, on the Net or when we are physically together.
Many people seem to have a stereotype toward long-distance relationship; yet, I will say that the proper distance can benefit and warmth your relationship. Due to the distance, you will cherish the time being together, not be easy to get bored. On the other hand, you also can remain your own private time and space. Don’t be afraid of long-distance relationship if you meet a suitable lover. The world is changing and the distance is shorter than before. Don’t make the long-distance relationship become a small stumbling block. As long as you can cross it with patient, there is no obstacle between you and your lover.
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